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Rabbi Eli Mansour

Daf Yomi

Bava Metzia 17A - 17B (14th Cycle Daf Yomi Shiur)

Lectured by Rabbi Eli Mansour

Published
July 1, 2025
Duration
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We find ourselves at the bottom of Daf Yud Zayin, continuing our exploration of halachic principles. The text begins with a statement from Rabbi Hiyya bar Abba in the name of Rabbi Yochanan: “One who claims after a ruling of the court has said nothing.” This establishes a critical concept regarding obligations imposed by a beit din. For instance, when a beit din mandates that an individual owes money, this obligation is recognized even in the absence of a formal declaration. Such rulings are based on established norms within Bnei Yisrael, like the obligation to support one’s wife or children, which do not require documentation to be enforceable.

If an individual asserts, “I have paid,” without witnesses to substantiate this claim, it remains ineffective. Even if the other party verbally claims the debt without a written document, the obligation stands as a verbal commitment, known as milveh al peh. The authority of the beit din is such that once they establish a ruling, the debtor cannot simply deny the obligation by claiming payment. The rationale is that any court ruling is treated as if the creditor holds a formal document against the debtor, similar to a shtar. Therefore, if the creditor presents a shtar asserting the debt, the debtor must provide witnesses to prove payment. Without such proof, the debtor remains liable.

This leads to a question posed by Rabbi Hiyya bar Abba to Rabbi Yochanan, referencing our own Mishna in Biktuvot: If a woman possesses a get (divorce document) but lacks a ketubah (marriage contract), she is still entitled to collect her ketubah. The husband cannot claim he has already paid unless he provides witnesses. This principle reinforces the idea that the beit din ruling grants the woman her rights, even in the absence of a formal ketubah.

The discussion continues with an intriguing analogy presented by the Gemara: “If I had not removed this piece of pottery, you would not have found the pearl beneath it.” This suggests that understanding the halachic principle of “one who claims after a ruling of the court has said nothing” is essential for comprehending the Mishna about the woman and her ketubah. Abaye then questions the significance of this analogy, asking what the “pearl” truly represents in this context.

Abaye suggests that perhaps we are discussing a location where ketubot are not written, implying that the get itself serves as the ketubah. In such cases, the get would function as a valid document for collecting the ketubah amount. However, if we are discussing a place where ketubot are indeed written, then the woman would require the actual ketubah to collect her dues. This highlights a critical distinction in halachic practice based on local customs.

Abaye further clarifies that if we are discussing a situation where ketubot are written, then the woman would need to present her ketubah to collect her dues. This is a significant point because it implies that in places where ketubot are customary, the absence of a ketubah could hinder her claim. The Gemara then examines the case of a widow who becomes a widow from eirusin (betrothal), where the ketubah has not yet been written. If she is entitled to a ketubah but lacks documentation, how does she collect her dues from the inheritors?

The discussion leads to the question of whether she can bring witnesses to prove her status as a widow. However, the inheritors could counter that they have already paid her, which complicates her claim. The Gemara emphasizes that if the Rabbis instituted a ketubah for a widow from eirusin, it must be enforceable even without the formal documentation. The beit din ruling therefore serves as the basis for her entitlement.

Abaye concludes that even in places where ketubot are not written, the beit din ruling suffices to establish her rights. This understanding is pivotal, as it illustrates how halachic principles adapt to varying customs while maintaining the integrity of the law. The Gemara continues to dissect the implications of these rulings, ensuring clarity on the obligations and rights inherent in the marital contract.

Ultimately, the discussion pivots back to the core question: How do we know that a woman receives a ketubah from eirusin? The Gemara references Rabbi Hiyya bar Ami, who states that when a husband dies while his wife is still only betrothed, she does not become an onen (mourner) for him. This indicates that the ketubah obligation exists even at this stage, confirming her entitlement.

In conclusion, the intricate discussions within the Gemara illuminate the nuanced rulings surrounding the ketubah and the obligations stemming from marital relationships. The principles established here not only guide individual cases but also reflect the broader halachic framework that governs the interactions and responsibilities within the Jewish community.