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Rabbi Eli Mansour

Daf Yomi

Kiddushin 19A - 19B (12th Cycle Daf Yomi Shiur)

Lectured by Rabbi Eli Mansour

Published
September 22, 2006
Duration
57:01

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The DVB Set edition, an audio series of the Talmud Bavli, Masechet Kiddushin, has been graciously sponsored by our good friend Mr. Chaimy Dana, may Hashem protect and sustain him, in honor of his wife Dina bat Rivka. May they enjoy many years of shalom bayit, Masechet Kiddushin, and hatzlacha, parnassa, along with all good things: health, happiness, nachat from their children, and all blessings. Amen.

Today's daf is being studied for the elevation of the soul of Yosef ben Moshe Aryeh, Yosef ben Sarah, and Marat Sekina Tzipa bat Sarah, and for the elevation of the soul of Avraham ben Esther. May the spirit of Hashem rest upon them in Gan Eden. Amen. Today's daf is also dedicated for the complete healing of Moshe ben Dina Tsava, Reuven Tzvi ben Sarah bat Rachel, and Tziyon ben Esther. May they experience healing of body and soul, along with all the sick of Israel, and let us say Amen.

As we delve into the Gemara, we find ourselves engaged in a sugya that explores the concept of kiddushei yi'ud. What is kiddushei yi'ud? It refers to a situation where a father sells his daughter as an amah. While we know that a father can sell his daughter as an amah, the chiddush here is that the adon (master) can marry that daughter. This scenario is termed kiddushin of yi'ud. The Gemara seeks to clarify the extent to which the adon’s yi'ud constitutes marriage. Is it at the level of kiddushin or at the level of nisuin? One might question the significance of this distinction, as marriage is marriage, but the implications are profound.

There are three nafka minot (practical differences) if the relationship is classified as kiddushin or nisuin. Firstly, regarding the annulment of vows: if they are married, the husband possesses the authority to annul vows. Secondly, if the husband is a kohen, he is permitted to become tamei (ritually impure). Thirdly, concerning inheritance: he inherits if it is nisuin, but if it is kiddushin, he does not have the right to become tamei, cannot inherit, and does not have the authority to annul vows independently. This distinction raises significant questions.

To explore this further, the Gemara provides a proof. It presents a case where all the Rabbis agree that a father can sell his daughter, who is an almanah, to a kohen gadol. This raises an interesting question: how can one sell to a kohen gadol, given that there is a rule, according to one opinion, that when selling a girl to an amah, she must be yi'ud-able? The Gemara acknowledges that you are correct; it is indeed an issur (prohibition). However, it clarifies that it is chal (valid). This means that if they did engage in yi'ud, the kiddushin is chal. This is unlike the case of selling a sister to a brother, where the kiddushin is not even chal.

The chiddush here is that even though one cannot sell a girl where yi'ud is impossible, selling an almanah to a kohen gadol is permissible, as the yi'ud would be an issur, yet it is chal, and therefore the sale is valid. The Gemara then seeks to analyze the case further. Is the almanah someone who made kiddushin herself? If she was a katanah, kiddushin does not apply. The Gemara rules out the possibility of the father marrying her off, as after marriage, there is no shifchut (servitude). Following Rabbi Akiva’s principle, there is no shifchut after ishus (marriage). Thus, we conclude that she must have married herself off. How could she have done so? The father sold her, and she then married the adon through yi'ud. This is based on the opinion that it is not the money the father received that constitutes the kiddushin, but the depreciation of her value.

Hence, it is not considered as if the father married her off, and therefore she married the adon. If the adon dies, the chiddush is that there is shifchut after her own ishus. What type of ishus is this? It is the ishus of erusin (betrothal), and thus we have proven that yi'ud establishes an erusin, and everything is in order because the ishus originates from her.

However, the Gemara presents another opinion. Rav Nachman bar Yitzchak argues that even Rabbi Yosei bar Rabbi Yehuda, who holds that the kiddushin of yi'ud is attributed to the father’s receiving of money, must have a case to support his view. If the father received the kiddushin, then when he first gave her over, he effectively established the kiddushin because he accepted the money. According to the rule that there is no shifchut after her ishus, how can one sell her to a kohen gadol?

The Gemara resolves this by stating that we follow Rabbi Eliezer, who maintains that shifchut after shifchut cannot occur, but shifchut after ishus is permissible. Therefore, the case must be understood in the context of yi'ud, where the father received the money and established kiddushin, and consequently, the ishus is valid. This leads us to the conclusion that the father can indeed sell her to a kohen gadol.

Next, the Gemara addresses a new question posed by Rami bar Chama: can a father designate a yi'ud for his young son? Can a katan (minor) create a yi'ud? The Gemara references the Torah, which states, "And if he designates her for his son." The term "son" does not specify age. However, it could be argued that the son must be like him, meaning an adult. The Gemara explores this, stating that Rav Zevid offers a proof from a pasuk that speaks of an adulterer, indicating that the term "man" excludes a katan. Thus, there is no death penalty for a katan who commits adultery.

The Gemara continues to analyze the implications of yi'ud and whether it can be executed by a katan. If a katan could indeed create a yi'ud, one could find a case where a lady is married to a katan. The Torah’s specification of "man" implies that only an adult can create a valid marriage. The Gemara concludes that yi'ud can only be executed by an adult.

Abaye offers a case involving a nine-year-old yavam (brother-in-law) who can perform yibum with his yevama (brother's widow). The Gemara notes that while he can perform yibum, this does not imply that he can create a valid marriage. The Torah clarifies that there is no death penalty in such a case. The Gemara questions the halacha regarding the validity of yi'ud executed by a katan, leading to the conclusion that yi'ud is only valid when executed by an adult.

As the Gemara continues, it states that there are two conditions for yi'ud: it must be executed by an adult and must be done with knowledge. The Gemara clarifies that a katan lacks the necessary da'at (knowledge) to create a valid yi'ud, thus affirming that yi'ud can only be established by an adult.

The discussion then shifts to the implications of the original money received by the father in the context of yi'ud. If the money was received for kiddushin, then the father has the da'at to create the marriage. However, if the money is not considered for kiddushin, it must be communicated to the daughter, allowing her to understand the situation. The Gemara emphasizes that the daughter must be informed of her marriage to the adon.

Finally, the Gemara introduces a new case where a father sells his daughter, stipulating that she cannot be designated for yi'ud. Rabbi Meir argues that such a condition is valid, while the Rabbis maintain that one cannot make conditions on matters written in the Torah. This leads to the conclusion that if the master wishes to create a yi'ud, he can do so regardless of the father's stipulation.

In summary, the intricate discussions surrounding kiddushin, yi'ud, and the conditions of marriage highlight the nuanced halachic principles that govern these relationships. The analysis of various opinions and cases enriches our understanding of the complexities inherent in Jewish law.