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Rabbi David Sutton

Daily Bitachon

Don’t Say, “I’m a Lad”

Lectured by Rabbi David Sutton

Published
July 13, 2020
Duration
08:02

We have just started the three weeks. The three weeks have three special Haftarah readings on Shabbat, starting with the Haftarah of Divreh Yirmiyahu, who was the prophet right before the destruction of the first Bet HaMikdash. He eventually wrote Echah, איכה which stands for:

אני I

ירמיה Yirmiyah

כהן Kohen

הענתות from (the town of) Anantot

Besides the actual prophecy that Yirmiyah gives, we also have a lesson on how G-d prepared Yirmiyah for his prophecy.

Being that we are in the first of the three weeks, we will speak about that lesson. We are introduced to Yirmiyah, who he was, when he lived, and then Hashem tells him that before he was even conceived, Hashem knew he’d be great. And even before he came out of the womb, Hashem had already designated him as a prophet.

So Yirmiyah was being told that he had powers. Yirmiyah responded with, Aha, Woe!

הִנֵּה לֹא יָדַעְתִּי דַבֵּר כִּי נַעַר אָנֹכִי

I don’t know how to talk, I’m still just a lad.

But G-d told him,

אַל תֹּאמַר נַעַר אָנֹכִי

“Don’t say you’re a lad, I’ll send you, and you will speak. Don’t be afraid of them, because I’m with you.”

*Yirmiyah had a lot of challenges in his life. He was taunted, he was ridiculed, he was accused of being a traitor, he was thrown in jail, but he persevered. He remained a prophet till the end, and we have a lot to say about Yirmiyah, not just in this class today.

Again G-d told him- strengthen yourself, you’ll do My job

אַל תֵּחַת מִפְּנֵיהֶם פֶּן אֲחִתְּךָ לִפְנֵיהֶם

Don’t be broken in front of them, unless they break you in from of them

The Radak says this means, “if you’re not afraid of them and you rely on Me I’ll save you. But if you are afraid you will fall.”

So even a prophet, with all his greatness still needs this hizuk/strengthening. Hashem had to encourage him, not to say “I’m a lad.” And Hashem had to tell him not to be afraid.

We will soon see that that speech is for us as well, in every generation, and for every individual.

Both the Hovot HaLevavot and the Bet HaLevi quote these pesukim of Yirmiyah as proof of the importance of Bitachon, and as proof of one of the great advantages of Bitachon, that a person can fulfill his mission without being afraid or concerned with outside pressures, or public opinion, because he knows he’s doing G-d’s mission

Rav Nosson Wachtfogel, the saintly Mashgiach of Lakewood said that if you don’t know who you are, you can’t accomplish anything in life. And you have to know not only who you are, but that G-d will help you. He said, in the name of Rav Yerucham Levovitz, That many great people fell, (or didn’t reach their potential), because they didn’t hear this message of “Don’t say ‘I am a lad’”

This is relevant all year long.

The pasuk in Kohelet, which tells us about the Yetzer HaRa and the Yetzer HaTov, says as follows:

ספר קהלת פרק ד-יג

טוֹב יֶלֶד מִסְכֵּן וְחָכָם מִמֶּלֶךְ זָקֵן וּכְסִיל אֲשֶׁר לֹא יָדַע לְהִזָּהֵר עוֹד:

An impoverished lad, if he’s wise, is better off than an old foolish king.

So, it’s better to be a young, impoverished, but wise lad than an old and foolish king.

Rashi says that this refers to the Yetzer HaTov, which is better than the Yetzer HaRa. Why is the Yetzer HaTov called “a lad?” Because the Yetzer HaTov enters the body at age thirteen, whereas the Yetzer HaRa has been in the body since birth, and so it has a thirteen-year edge.

The Alschich adds that the Yetzer HaTov is called a lad because it’s one of his weaknesses. The Alschich says that every individual must hear,

אַל תֹּאמַר נַעַר אָנֹכִי

Don’t say you’re a lad

You are strong, you can overcome. Don’t be afraid to show them.

This will give you the ability to overtake these challenges.

This is an important lesson for always, but especially in our days. It’s especially important at this time of year, which is the three weeks. The Mesilat Yesharim says that one might say,

מָה אֲנִי וּמָה אֲנִי סָפוּן שֶׁאֶתְפַּלֵּל עַל יְרוּשָׁלַיִם וכו',

Who am I ? Am I important that I should start praying in the three weeks for Yershalayim to be rebuilt?

הֲמִפְּנֵי תְפִלָּתִי יְכֻנְּסוּ הַגָּלֻיּוֹת וְתִצְמַח הַיְשׁוּעָה?

Can my prayers cause the exiles to be gathered in and the redemption to sprout?

The Mesilat Yesharim answer is, as it says in the famous Mishnah in Sanhedrin, “Man was created alone; only one Adam and one Chava, so that every individual could say - בִּשְׁבִילִי נִבְרָא הָעוֹלָם-for me, the world was created ,I’m the only one in the world and I can make a difference.

We all make a difference, but even if we don’t see it,

נַחַת רוּחַ הוּא לְפָנָיו יִתְבָּרֵךְ

We are making G-d feel good that His children are praying and asking for this. And even if we aren’t answered, because it’s not the right time for whatever reason, he says, You’ve made G-d happy.

So we have an opportunity during these weeks:

Firstly, don’t say “I’m a lad.” Don’t underestimate your powers.

Don’t think, “Who am I? I’m a little guy”. You’re not so little. You’re empowered. Don’t make that mistake.

Secondly, Rav Chaim Vital quotes the Arizal as saying, “You should know that the greatness of a soul is not dependent on the deeds down here, rather by the times that you’re in, כי מעשה קטן מאד בדור הזה שקול לכמה מצות גדולות שבדורות אחרים

Because a very small deed in this generation weighs in like many great mitzvot in the previous generations. We are greater because our generation has a lot of resistance, much more than previous generations. When you see someone lifting weights it may not look like he’s doing anything because there is tremendous resistance. But the little bit that he’s seemingly doing is doing a lot to his muscles. You just don’t see it.

That’s our generation. There is a lot of resistance, and if we can overcome some of that resistance and challenge, and take out the time to ask Hashem for redemption during the three weeks, whether:

- in our Amidah prayers, whether it be in Et Semah David, or Bonei Yerushalayim

-in our Al Hamihya prayers, because as we have mentioned in the past from Rav Wolbe, when we say Al Hamihya, we are requesting that the Bet HaMikdash be rebuilt.

- in Birkat Hamazon, which has this as well.

-in Retzeh, which we say in Shabbat has it too.

Pick a spot that talks to you and pray for the redemption.

Don’t say, “Who am I?”

You’re not as small as you think. If you’re reading this, and you’re working on yourself, that’s pretty good. Not that many people are doing that.

Therefore, let’s start with that opening and important message in Yermiyah HaNavi.

Don’t say, נער אנכי-Don’t say, ‘I’m a lad ’Have a wonderful day.